Emoed a little.
Its amazing how life goes in a cycle. I've seen how this particular friend revolve round in my past. It seem as though its a reflection of what had happen but the content are a little different. I was being asked, is there anything i can change to do better or something along the same context as i can't remember the exact words. What had happened to him reminded myself of what i had learnt a lot from. Basically its needless for details i'll just go with quotations:
"Don't change yourself for the sake of others, do it for the sake of yourself. Else when the motivator that give you the strength to change is gone, you will either lose yourself or revert back to what you used to be or worse"
I've seen many a time how friends/people change drastically or tremenduosly having gone thru the aftermath of emotional pain. Its saddening sometimes, when you see someone all so cheerful, loud, happy-go-lucky kind of person suddenly become all so solemnly quiet. How little changes from a particular person or something that he/she love can affect oneself so dramatically.
"In everybody life, there is a point of time when something hit you so hard that change you completely into a different person. A new you"
There's an eye opening event that i went to yesterday, since its past 12 midnight so yea its yesterday. Its call Cheerobics. In this competition are people who have so much passion in it and had put their heart and soul into training running thru their routine day after day but alas, sometimes we don't actually get what we work for. Questioning that, "Do we really ripe what we sow?" I will say yes there bound to be something from all the hardwork. I believe Magnum people had done well, be it good or bad the results had been presented, i believe they have really gain something extraordinary, that is strong bond and togetherness. There are things that are priceless, its unwritten, nor fame, nor money can buy. It is a kind of special feeling called "love". Think about it this way, love can be in a big or small scale. We all love the people around us, friends family etc etc. It is this special word/feeling that kept people together.
"People learn thru the hard way. Thru hardships only do they really feel/notice the existence of people around them."
During that event, i've seen tears rolling down cheeks of friends, families and people unknown to me. Its amazing how people are brought together when they realise how much hardwork one have gone thru just for one thing in their heart and soul, that is to get the one thing they have work so hard for. Its hard to console them at such times, i believe they need time to think as there are so many things going thru each and every single one of their minds.
"There are times when we feel so helpfully helpless, as we stood there, right there at that moment and see that we can't do anything to stop the tears from flowing."
I'm done for the day, exhausted...... nice event.
